Reviews of the Autism Book: So much to relate to

Hello again!

I am already 1/3 of the way through your book and it is amazing. I can relate to a lot of your thoughts in regards to going out. It is a major stress when its school holidays and weekends because he gets bored easily,but cannot be out in public because he is prone to screaming. He runs off aswell,thinking its funny and many a time I have been standing in Bitterne town centre, waiting for him to return from whichever shop he decided to venture into.

I am tougher towards other peoples ignorant stares and comments,and have put people firmly in their place when they felt they were justified in voicing their utter disgust at his behaviour. I have become used to saying loudly " my son has special needs,he may look normal,but he lives in his own world and you are not helping me" - usually makes them embarresed enought to stop!

I recently moved back into Bitterne after 5 years away so I have not really got myself aquainted with any ASD places. The school is lovely,but they don't really have a network going for parents.

Joseph (my son) is nearly 6. I have another son, Oscar, who will be 2 soon. As yet, Oscar is not displaying any traits,especially the traits Joseph had at his age.
To summarise Joseph's ASD traits he :-
Doesn't communicate well. He will say a few words,but only when he needs something,and even the words are not 'perfect' sense. No sentences still.

He ignores most people. I am teaching those close to him to say his name followed by a simple instruction,as otherwise he does'nt realise they are talking to him.

He went through a very destructive phase 2 years ago. Trashing the house. We ended up with one plate and bowl after he workede through smashing all our crockery! I did'nt see the point in replacing them at the time.

I finally got him into a good sleep routine. Months of screaming until 1am,head banging,throwing objects at me etc. Now he goes to bed really well - thank goodness.

He used to bite me until I bled. Throw books/toys/any object at my head. Hit/punch/kick/head butt me. This behaviour has waned thankfully too.

I hope we can keep in contact as I don't feel so alone now.

Regards, Victoria (Best Beauty Bargains)